What is the rush really?
I’m taking the slow approach now. I’m making new friends and I am taking my time really getting to know these persons that I am considering bringing into my life. I have had people impose and try to rush things with me and I really don’t like it. It makes me uncomfortable and my anxiety flares up. I need to be in control of my relationships and be able to set healthy boundaries for myself.
I wanted to graduate college and move away but as much as I tried to force it, it still hasn’t happened. I have discovered so much about myself, there were some things I needed to learn and some people I needed to help. My path really hasn’t gone according to plan and I have had to accept that, which was very hard. Taking the time to just slow down and take my time has really helped me. I even walk a little slower to enjoy the sites around me, when I’m in traffic I don’t really get upset I just enjoy the silence or the time I have to myself. I even eat slower to really enjoy the taste of my food.
Relationships with guys hit a complete stop altogether. I never was a rush into things type of lady. However I most certainly am taking my time in this area because I am waiting to meet the one who sweeps me of my feet. That may sound very cliche but everyone’s vision of this looks different. I do believe this will come but I have to be patient. I am still young and I have a lot of years ahead of me and I want them to be my best. So if me slowing things down a bit can help me get there then I will certainly do so. If there were something that I wish I could make happen fast would be for me to get this student loan dept paid off and that I could have a few thousand saved in the bank.
LaShara Lashawn 
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